Yes, we're asking you...
"Can I trust you?" and "Do you trust Jesus?"
Before we get to those questions, allow us to ask a third question: What is your first memory of church?
Once you have that memory in focus, now consider your role as a leader. It takes courage to lead. When someone considers participation in the church, they will likely ask basic questions of trust and also examine their fears (and, yes, sometimes the fears are irrational).
"Can I trust you?" is one of the first questions we ask of one another. No, it is not an overt question. But it is a question every human being seeks to answer before they'll develop a relationship with you.